Mutual respect is imperative.

Discerning gentlemen are my preferred clientele. A discerning gentleman, to me, is honorable when scheduling an appointment. He shows up, has self-respect, and self-control, and behaves respectfully toward me.

Self-knowledge is essential when scheduling an in-person session. You must know yourself, and your hard and soft limits, or agree to trust me to test your boundaries safely. If you are a first-timer booking a session, you should tell me. Having respect for oneself extends to personal hygiene. Arrive smelling clean, with fresh breath, or be prepared to shower upon arrival. (Your session time will include your showering.)


Gentlemen 40 years and older are my preference. Kindly note, I have made exceptions in the past with mature gentlemen in their 30’s. Men in their 20’s will not be acceptable to me. (The only exception would be an under-30 man who is successful in business, and has two references from qualified providers.)

Gentlemen in their 30’s remain challenged when working together. If you are in this age group, accept the following requirements:
-Deposit is always required. (Venmo, CashApp, Amazon Gift Card)
-Email of introduction is required. (you must send it)
-Phone call, to talk, is required. (texting is not talking)
-Scheduled appointment time must occur.
-Confirmation of appointment time is required on the day of the appointment.
-Same-day or last-minute appointments are not possible.


An introduction text or email is frightening for some men. Please know I understand. Start with “Mistress, how may I serve you?” If you do not know what to write, I will take the lead and guide you.

Introduction emails should include the following:
-Your name
-Your experience (previous servitude or ownerships, first-timer)
-Your interests (for example foot fetish, latex, spanking, etc)
Never exceed 10 text messages or emails each day. Excessive messaging is inefficient to me. I will view you as a time-waster.

Sensual exploration, sexual deviance, and decadent kink excite me. Time-wasting, inefficient communication is painfully dull.

Let’s agree to efficient communication to arrange exciting memories together. If we don’t share a mutual interest, let’s agree to part amicably, while wishing each other well. Time is a precious commodity. Let’s live in the here and now.

Same-day or last-minute appointments are not possible.

Are you ready to get started? Set an appointment today.